Whatever People Say I Am, That's What I'm Not

Recently heard from more than one person that people have been talking about me. Like outright discussing. Some things I've heard is that one reason that I was left is because I'm not as rich as the other girl, who lives in a condo and has her own car. Also heard that the ex likes to choose girls who have no fathers.

Just naming some of the things I heard which made my jaw drop. Like seriously, family history also got dragged into the conversation...

Seriously I don't know if it's true, but I'd like to believe that it's not true. I'm not gonna go judge whatever people say and judge someone else's personality or character.

I just hope where everyone is headed towards is a better future and that everyone will become a better person over time. Seriously.

Anyway, I'm not hurt or bitter or that affected by what I heard. I must admit it can be hurtful and shocking, but it is also amusing, and a form of entertainment and enlightenment all at the same time.

I'm like "huh, ok... so that's what people say and think. can't stop them."

At least I know what people think and are saying about me. And maybe from there I can try to improve whatever message I am conveying through my actions and attitude? Hopefully.

Whatever People Say I Am, That's What I'm Not.

Nothing anyone says, and no one incident or experience, can truly define who we are.

We're all too complex, and we may make bad decisions when we are good people, or we may be bad people who make good choices.

I don't know, but I do know I won't allow others' words or actions to pull me down. I may be sad for a little while, but definitely not for a long time.

P.S. On what basis do you judge someone? How do you know what the other person's worth? And what makes you think you're right about that person?

My 2 cents' worth.

Nights. :3